Do you know of someone who wants to win at all cost, irrespective of the damage it causes to others? What about someone who takes all the credit for everything good that happens and dumps anything that is not going well on others? Do you know that they may actually be full of fear, insecurities and self doubts and may be trying to cover these by displaying macho behaviour?
How about someone who cannot say No to anything or anyone, ends up being exploited and feeling like a doormat? Do you sense that their cover of being compassionate, large hearted nobility of being a martyr is a coping mechanism to manage how they are feeling inside?
What can we do to develop an insights on what is driving these behaviours and what we can do about this?